I will admit that fall in New England is beautiful. I will concede that fact. However. However, the arrival of the autumnal equinox never thrills me. Instead, I grow nostalgic over the waning summer, the loss of long, hazy days and oceanside memories. I feel anxious over summer’s hasty decline. I want more time to...
Colleen - How can you not see the beauty in the first fresh snow of the winter? And really even though winter seems long sometimes, I love every time we have a fresh fall of snow. It makes everything feel white, clean, fresh, and quiet.
How about ice skating with the kids? Ice fishing and the excitement of pulling that bass through the layers of ice. Warm cozy fires in the fire place on cold evenings. Nights playing Uno with the boys. Singing Christmas Carols which seem all too short that they are sung. How almost every time I can’t hold back the tears to Silent Night. Rejoicing in the birth of a Saviour.
Sledding time in the back yard. Snowmen in the front yard.
The list goes on and on.. Because winter has always been a favorite season of mine.
Katie - Autumn is a beautiful time of year to enjoy a warm campfire munching on smores while knitting a sweater. (I still think you should learn.)
Betsy - I know, Katie– I think I should learn, too. But… I keep putting it off. Maybe it has something to do with having 4 sisters who are expert knitters themselves? 
Dee - I just love being back where the leaves are so beautiful!!
Betsy - And we love having you back, D!
Jess - knitting is overrated..learn to crochet
Fall..the crispness of the cool air. Chilly nights, warm afternoons. The cozy of the sweatshirt that you remembered to bring along, the feel of someone’s warm hand in yours. Apples, pie, applesauce, crunchy leaves, brightly colored trees, the dark blue sky that is opposite from the sunrise.
Sheila - The beauty of the warms tones of the autumn leaves as the sun passes through them in the afternoon… along a certain stretch of Route 140 as I head home. Try to check it out in the next couple of weeks.
Julie - My favorite fall activity is apple picking with my children. We take the wagon and LOAD it up with bright red crisp apples. I love watching my children pick the bounty that God has given. I love watching my children bite into a crisp apple and the juice run down their chin. And they smile.
We pick at an orchard that was started by an ancestor and it was where my Grandpa grew up. I talk history with them..talk family relations with them…I want them to know their heritage. This is such a wonderful time to talk to them about my dad..about the Grandpa Dale they will never know. Apple picking with my kids is such a precious time for me…one I will always treasure.
Betsy - Your comments are helping — and Sheila, I’m going to have to check out that stretch of road, b/c you know how I feel about pretty light!
M. - Imagine living where you didn’t have a change of a season. Where the air temp would always be pretty much the same, and the weather… pretty much the same. I love the newness of a change in seasons. Although winter I enjoy the newness and then would prefer to have it be gone…But we can’t pick and choose and that’s the beauty of it all. This fall enjoy each and every moment, the crisp air, smell of cinnamon cider candles, pumpkin decorations and treats, deep dark fall colors, the leaves falling…Carve a few pumpkins and put them on your porch, then sit there and enjoy a nice cup of hot apple cider, or a caramel apple latte as you watch the candles flicker inside. One year I carved my pumpkin with the BIGest smile possible… it made me happy, even though you could see right inside! 
Ellen - Autumn is Fest and Fair season! Craft Fairs, Agricultural Fairs, Apple Fests, and all sorts of once a year (only in autumn) activities. Oh, and this year Dover, VT is turning 200 so they are holding a party/parade the first weekend in October.
While I’m not particularly fond of the cold that is coming, the cold does bring pretty leaves. And those leaves look awfully pretty in the sun.
Jayme - Apple picking, HOT apple cider (my favorite part of fall!), hay rides, driving anywhere in New England and having the bright lights of evening shine thru the multi-colored leaves, campfires, fall decorating, pumpkin carving (and baking the seeds to eat!), cool evenings spent on the porch or in the house, curled up with a warm blanket (and cup of cider!), pies, baking (for some reason, i’m in the mood to bake most in the fall), Thanksgiving. Need more?
Well, your comments have been considered, and the results are in. We employed a very specific, scientific method of choosing the 3 winners of any item of the winners’ choice from my Etsy shop. So scientific– Think ripped pieces of paper and three children at dinnertime, closing their eyes and picking blindly. It worked well,...
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Jill - Hey, I’m as excited as Nora!! So do you have any plane tickets in my Etsy shop so I can come and celebrate being a winner with Nora?
! Looking forward to doing a little shopping. We miss you guys.
The winner of the giveaway(s) from my Etsy shop (here) will be announced later tonight– but there’s still time to enter. Just leave your comment in the post below this one, and your name will be added to the list of possible winners. And because every post needs a picture, here’s one of my boy...
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Cheryl Ryan - I know where he gets his adventurism from! I am sure his grandpa would love to go with him to the moon!
Jeanie Hany - Betz, your web site is always intriguing and invites us back. When you asked for comments I can only say keep up the good work. I went on a search for an inspirational verse, because I can’t come up with words of my own. I went to the book we received from a friend when Russell died. In there are two short statments. “The only courage that matters is the kind that gets you from one moment to the next”. Mignon McLaughlin. “If the future seems overwhelming, remember that it comes one moment at a time.” Beth Mende Conny. Sorry for the lengthy message.
I recently realized that this post would be my 400th. Which is hard to fathom, that you’ve put up with me this long… So, in light of 400 posts through a couple of years, it’s time for a little giveaway. Well, a giveaway and an announcement. Remember my last post? Where I poured my heart...
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Jennifer - Betsy, Let me first start off saying that I am happy you are feeling better and getting back to what you love doing. I truly love your blog, its refreshing and inspiring. I love your talent of writing…and photography. I find that most of your posts ‘slow’ me down in the busy day to day routine.
I hope you bring back ‘Friday Favorites’ I really enjoyed learning about places / products / ideas. You always have fun and fresh ideas to brighten your readers day.
Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.
Mother Teresa
Cheryl - I enjoy reading what is going on in your house, with the kids and seeing them even when not in person.
Chin up, chest out, feet forward.
KJR
Mom
Julie - I love your “rambling” as you call it. It encourages me to keep going forward with the things in my life. It makes me want to be a better mom. In your last post it made me realize how many times I put my kids to bed and say “I can’t snuggle tonight.I have homework.” I’ve quit doing that ever since. Because in 10 years or even one year I won’t remember how tired I was, but I will either regret the time I didn’t spend with my kids or be thankful for the time that I did. Thanks for that eye opener.
My favorite quote is from myself. I tell it to my children…(and remind myself of it too…)
“Do it (a chore) with a smile on your face and a song in your heart”
-Julie
Sarah - Betsy,
I love your blog!! It makes me feel more connected to you. I love reading the words you write and looking at the pics you post. You have a gift of writing and photography. I do miss seeing the Friday favorites. I check your blog at least once a day, so when I would see your Friday favorite, it was always a reminder for me to find something to be thankful for and be my own “Friday Favorite!!” I actually want to share two quotes since I can’t decide on which one: “If you need someone to just listen, then just pray” and “Don’t allow the questions of your heart to overturn your faith…Allow your faith to overturn the questions of your heart.” Both of these quotes are hanging on plaques I bought on my wall in my room. I see them everyday, and they are very good reminders to me and help me get through each day!!
Keep up the good work,
Sarah
Betsy - Julie, your quote made me laugh– and I can’t wait to use it on my kids! (They are SO going to look at me like I’m nuts, since I’ve never said it like that before.) So thanks! (and I’m wondering– does it really work?)
Sarah - Betsy,
Every time I read your “ramblings” or see your beautiful pictures it makes me smile and brightens my day a little. Your imagination and outlook on life and what it holds for a person has caused me to up my standards of what I expect out of an ordinary day. One specific thing that I really enjoy is seeing your own creativity in decorating and crafts. More than once I have been inspired to create something because of what I have seen on your blog.
As for words that have meant something to me, I have to use a quote from a favorite character:
“When I left Queen’s my future seemed to stretch out before me like a straight road. I thought I could see along it for many a milestone. Now there is a bend in it. I don’t know what lies around the bend, but I’m going to believe that the best does. It has a fascination of its own, that bend, Marilla.”
-And-
“Things turn out best for those who make the best of the way things turn out”.
erin - Betsy,
I’m beginning to realize you CAN get to know someone who is 1000 miles away through what they write on their blogs. By sharing emotions, struggles, joys, achievements, and failures you help us get our minds off of ourselves for a little bit and we all know we can use help with that. You help me want to take more pictures and care less about how dusty my house is, to stop and savor the sunshine instead of pay attention to the “to do” list. My husband has told me time and time again to play with Sierra instead of rushing to get the house clean…because we all know how fast kids grow up. I know you’ve mentioned this a few times yourself too.
As for what I like about your blog, I would have to say the day to day “posted in Our Life” posts get me most excited. Just getting a peek into your life and how you handle a certain situation inspires me. Like decorating for the 1st day of school. That’s something I want to do for my kids.
And the quote? Well, let’s just say as Christians, it’s a common one, but boy does it ever bring me peace and helps me to trust.
“God never gives you more than you can handle”. Betsy, as you’ve gone through sickness and surgery, surely you can testify that this quote is true and that He is always there, lightening our load, when we feel we will surely break.
Much Love,
Erin
Julie - Betsy,
Does my quote work? Um…well…not always. But sometimes. Its one of those long term goal thingies we do as moms. Something that I hope my kids will do as adults and pass on to their children. So that their children can roll their eyes at them. Sometimes I even need to say it to myself. Quite frequently in fact.
Let me know well your kids take it. After the nutty look they give you ;o)
Shannon - Well, I love the blend of posts you leave. Because one of anything is just plain boring, IMHO! So that fact that you incorporate the day to day and the photos, makes for some good lurking
My quote of wisdom is this (I picked two because, well, I love them both:)
“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; for they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” – M.Proust
“Here’s to good women, may we know them, may we be them, may we raise them.”
Darla - Betsy,
oh no,please don’t zip your lips! That is my favorite part…you have such a way with words that many of us lack. I do love your photography too, your creative ideas, interesting settings, unique style. I really enjoy seeing your children and hearing about what goes on in your household. You have encouraged me to cherish the little moments, forget about things that “should” get done, and just hold on to our children while they are little and while we have them.
“Enjoy the little things. One day you may look back and realize they were the big things.”
Jess - #1) I love the daily photo, with the number of the day as the title. I really love honesty. It is a cleansing breath…and when you speak it out loud for others to hear, suddenly you feel not so alone any more.
#2) My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in (your) weakness. 2 Cor 12:9
Betsy - Thanks for all the feedback so far, everyone. I’m really enjoying reading your favorite quotes. Keep ‘em coming!
Kayla - #1)ok, please don’t change anything about the blog. I’ve loved everything, from everyday blurbs to Friday favorites (which I always buy, whether I really need it or not I especially love your writing. Seriously, last year when I was away from home, stuck in a small dorm room, I would just look at your blog everyday and my spirits were immediately lifted. You gave me a piece of home, a look into real love, a glimpse of the simple, everyday family life that I was craving. It still does that to this day. Your pictures and especially your words inspire me to be a better person and really look and appreciate things that would otherwise be overlooked. To pick up the camera and document my grandparents holding hands. To catch the real laughs of my sisters. To see the way evening light can make a beautiful thing look that much more breathtaking. You’re blog has done this, for me and for all the other readers. And for that I thank you, and ask you to please not change anything. Because I tend to need many reminders to slow down, look around, and enjoy.
#2) I have so many quotes, its taking me forever to decide. But one of my all time favorites thats actually posted on my wall to remind me everyday: “The cure for anything is saltwater: sweat, tears, and the sea.” – Isak Dinesen
Mary - Betsy,
Your blog is an enjoyable part of my day….it’s wonderful the way it is! Interesting quotes such as you post are an inspiration for many!
One of my favorite ‘quotes’ is from Proverbs 16…Commit thy works unto the Lord, and thy thoughts shall be established.
Keep up the good work, & keep smiling. We appreciate you!
~Mary
Bethany - Betz, the best part of your blog is you! Its the way you take your pictures. The way you describe the moments you take them, its like we are all with you. Its the quotes you pick and the songs you post and sometimes sing You share more than just a hobby with us, you share you and your most prized possesion, your family. The quiet moments in your house that only you and paul are there for. Connor and Nora snuggled together looking at a book. Joel helping you in the garden. I love to see the fun things you do with the kids like baking or making giant bubbles and special mile stones….like the first day of school or fun family traditons like washing your hair in the rain. You put so much of your heart into each and every post and it shows.
The quote that I think about everyday and that is now printed on my desk so I can see it everyday is one by Elizabeth Stone….Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. I have in the past, almost, 2 years really experienced that for myself!
Luv ya, Bethany
Ellen - Betsy – please don’t change the blog. Of course I love the pictures, but the stories you tell with them are the best part of ‘blog stalking.’ :~)
As for a quote – how about a song that I’m sure Girl Scout troops everywhere are still singing:
Make new friends, but keep the old/ One is silver and the other gold/ A circle’s round/it has no end/That’s how long I want to be your friend.
Gwen - I love your photography and love reading about your family life. Even though I have never met you before, I feel like I halfway know you!
Here is a favorite quote of mine….given to me from my grandpa!
“Love many, trust few. Always paddle your own canoe!”
Jayme - Betsy- As has been said so many times, my favorite part of these, besides, of course, the beautiful pictures, are the words you share with each one. Not only are they an insight to your life, they are inspiring and a little smile that comes into my day each time my feed says that Betsy has a new blog entry! You were blessed with the gift of words and we are blessed that you decided to share that gift with us.
I’m not sure where I heard this quote, but I just said it one day though I’m sure I could not have made this up on my own! I have it permanently written on my white board to remind myself each day: “Keep your chin up and your knees down.”
Lisa - I enjoy reading your blog so much. What I appreciate most is your ability to appreciate the beauty of ordinary things that are around each one of us. I wouldn’t change a thing.
I have many favorite quotes, but one that sticks out is this: One day at a time– this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering.”
-Ida Scott Taylor, English author
Donna - Betsy, I like ALL your posts — photos are beautiful and you
capture beauty in a way that I would never see it. Day-to-day is great with your creative ideas. And I admire the way you express yourself so openly as that is not always easy for me to do. Your posts most always make me smile.
One quote I remember my mother saying (and Owie said he got the same advice from his Uncle Johnny) was “don’t talk about someone else’s kids ’cause you don’t know what your own will do”!
Probably my favorite, though, is the “golden rule” — “Do unto others as you’d like them to do unto you.”
Lisa - For some reason, I thought you wanted our favorite quote you’ve already put on the blog. Er, yes. I should read more closely.
How about this one?
When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.
Betsy - @ Lisa: So funny! I didn’t even recognize the quote you wrote as being from this blog. I just thought, “Oh, what a nice quote!” It did sound familiar…
Charlotte - I love the way you write your thots on paper. I love the way you tell us about your children and the love you have for them and your hubby.
My favorite comment is: Life is like a flat tire. If you don’t fix it, you won’t go anywhere.
Pam - Betsy,
Please don’t change anything about your blog. The girls and I always love looking at it. We especially love seeing the pictures of your beautiful family. You certainly have a way with words.
One of my favorite quotes is “To succeed in life you need three things. A wishbone, a backbone and a funny bone”. Reba
Lanae - Betsy-
Your pictures are always so beautiful. I really enjoy your writting too…so keep it all up. I like to take pictures some myself and like to get ideas from your posts. It is always good to hear about you and your family…especially the kids. I feel like I know them and you a little more! Take care Betsy…
“Blessed are the flexible…for they will not get bent outa shape”
Blessings-Lanae
Jill - Betsy, I appreciate your blog so much….all the photos AND the writing. I seriously think you could take up a career as a writer. You have such talent with the written word. You have helped me see the world differently through the pictures you take. Especially those where you zero in on one detail and the rest of the picture is blurred into the background. It brings to life the everyday things that really matter. I love the family photos – posed and relaxed. As someone who is experimenting with my camera,I do appreciate it when you post your camera settings on occasion.
In high school English class this quote was on a sign in our room, “Be sure brain is in gear before engaging mouth”. I’ve thought of it often over the years. And I eat a lot less leather when I remember it
Love across the miles….
Carole - Betsy,
I love the photo images you post ~ daily “ins & outs” of your family life, and the baby, wedding & family shots of your many clients. The added comments you post with each photo are my favorite. Your words always make me smile, and sometimes a so-so day becomes much brighter because of it. I love your latest of Connor and his eyelashes. I, too, have a little one with eyelashes that beg for a picture except he doesn’t stay in one place long enough for a decent shot! I have 2 favorite quotes. The first “Be still, and know that I am God:” -Psalm 46 has very special meaning to me. The second makes me smile “I know that God will not give me anything I can’t handle. I just wish that he didn’t trust me so much.”- Mother Theresa
May God bless you in your work.
Dorothy - Betz: Don’t you dare zip your lip!! Love your blog and check it often. One of my favorite quotes (can’t remember who said it) is “Gratitude is the parent of all other virtues”. I also really loved Bill S.’s definition of HOPE a few weeks ago (and actually thought a lot about you when I heard it). It went something like this “Hope is the eager anticipation of the unknown events of the future.” Not sure if I got it quite right, but you get the meaning. Keep the blog coming.
~ We may call it what we will; a bend in the road, a closed door, a dream deferred. It’s disappointing when plans are rearranged and the little house of hope we’ve been building seems like it crumbled. When years of hard work and hours of study went into something that was supposed to be...
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Sherry - Betsy, You said it so perfect. Never regret your decision! Live, love and laugh! One day at a time…
We love you!
Sherry and Family
Sheila - Your written sentiments are so true. They certainly help me put things in perspective. May God continue to guide you.
Shannon - Hey Betz! It’s a hard pill to swallow, but guess what?! I’m doing that too! THe fantastically mundane things! And well, sometimes there is comfort in numbers. So maybe, just maybe, we’ll be finishing our dreams together…down the road
Chin up! Love ya XO
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