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    Thanks for stopping by! I'm Betsy, and I like taking pictures-- of people, most of all. I'm wife to Paul and mother to Joel, Nora and Connor. They are my favorite subjects. I'm a Special Care nurse by day, a knitter and reader by night. I love New England, and Cape Cod most of all.

    I am available for some limited travel, especially if it's to Ireland or some other lovely clime.

    Wanna' get in front of my camera? Get in touch and we'll set up a session!

Friend: (n) a favored companion

I recently had another beautiful evening, documenting some memories for a group of 4 friends. There’s nothing quite like a summer night to revel in the happiness that companionship can bring. I know these pictures have been anxiously awaited by Lis, Marcy, Lydia and Jayme, so I’ll get right to them:

–Although, I have no idea how you’re going to choose your favorites, girls. Way too many of your photogenic bunch!

So, I like to start with my favorites. But that’s hard to do. So I’m just going to jump right in. Because this one brings a smile. Bright green grass, and cheery, bright clothing. ‘Makes me happy, thankyouverymuch.


They brought some awesome props to add to the summertime, picnic feel:


Yum. It was good. I know because, well, I had some.


Lydia:


Elisabeth:


Jayme:

Marcy:

Dear Summertime,

I love you.

-The end.

Thanks so much, Lis, Marcy, Jayme & Lydia! I had a great time photographing your friendship!

“In summer, the song sings itself.”

~William Carlos Williams, American poet. (1883-1963)

Placid: (adj) pleasantly calm or peaceful; unruffled; tranquil; serenely quiet or undisturbedd

Another thing I love about photography? When I go back and look at images, the feeling and emotion brought about in the moment becomes real again.

This night was calm and beautiful, warm and golden. Aly & Chris were relaxed and placid, ready to just go with the flow as we took the time to document the summer of their engagement.

These images are for their custom photography guest book for signing on their wedding day. Can’t wait to get it to you, Aly & Chris! It was so nice to be with you again– I always leave with a smile on my face and laughter in my heart. And so that’s what I wish for both of you– a placid, peaceful life with blessings and joy.

‘Looking forward to your August wedding!

So, Aly and Chris’s first engagement session was on a beautiful, white, snowy, COLD winter day. So I wanted to use props that said, “Summertime.” And to follow is what I came up with:

I love their smiles here– and how Chris has a little drip of watermelon juice on his chin. Hello, summer!



LOVE the light in this one– the flowers, the dress, the glass jars.

I’ve had this image in my head as an idea for awhile now, and knew it would be a lot of work to get it. Well, it was. Lens flare always makes me jump through hoops to get it. But when it’s caught? Oh, so worth the trouble it causes. One of my favorite, favorite images:


Yes, they do look at each other like this, umprompted by me-


All I can think of with this picture is, “It won’t be a stylish marriage, I can’t afford a carriage; but you’ll look sweet upon the seat of a bicycle built for two.” Ah, memories of song tapes from my childhood…


This light is just… perfect.


On to Fox Hill:


We were losing light fast, but not so fast that I couldn’t grab this one-


Don’t know what it is about it, but I like this one. A lot.


This next series of four pictures makes my heart smile. Well, if it could smile, my heart would do so about these four images. See how he looks at her?


I like it when people enjoy laughter. Aly and Chris didn’t disappoint.


And a few more from the reception site from their August wedding– This is Chris’ grandpa’s land– so beautiful. And since their wedding portraits will be taken elsewhere, we decided to take some pictures here. Good choice, with the beautiful green grass and warm, glowing light.



“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.”

-Helen Keller

Sneak Peek

When I do a sneak peek it usually involves one picture. Right now I’m breaking my rules. Because when they all look like these, how do I choose a favorite?

Oh, to be so photogenic-

Sentiment: (n) emotional significance.

You know how there are certain people or events in your life that have significance? People or places that stay with you, things that you know you’ll be talking about someday years from now, telling your children the story of ” Years ago, when we used to …” ? Well, this post encompasses all of those things for me.

It started when I was younger– like 14 or so. I started working at Kloter Farms and (for the most part) pretty much stayed there until after I had Joel. What’s funny is that Paul’s been working there for over 8 years now– and we never worked there at the same time.

Growing up, so many memories were made in what was once Kloter Farms’ little store, and at the Christmas dinners down in Keith and Mary’s old basement, or at picnics in Waterford each June. And of course, late nights at the Eastern States Exposition. Over time, some of my sisters worked at Kloter Farms (or still do!) , as well as many of our good friends. We all have memories of our time together there– some memories that are wonderful and sweet, funny and quirky, and some sad as over time life changed and those who we had come to love experienced sickness or age, and went on.

I can remember the excitement and joy I felt when I got to bring Joel to his first picnic as a little baby. And this year he’s old enough to be out in the kayak alone. Where does the time go? I remember when the twins were just tiny babies and we brought them in their little matching outfits. Now they’re old enough to be scavenging for crabs with the ‘big kids.’ It’s like I can almost mark time in my life by what and who was at this event, and how old our children were at the ‘The Picnic.’

But it’s really not about the place. Or the food we eat. Or even the weather we have. It’s about the people- the ones who have been supportive of each other when times were tough, or times were good. The ones who wrote encouraging notes or did something special and selfless without credit or fanfare. Those who cared so deeply, giving so fully when health or circumstances were difficult for someone. To be asked to document some of the goings-on was a privilege. Because it’s more than people or employers, customers or co-workers. It’s about family.

So besides all the fun things to do in the water, on the swings, and in the yard, Tracey from Ballyhoo came to narrate amazing, interactive stories for the children. Check out their reactions below— they all LOVED it! (Not to mention the parents were just as entertained!) Check out Tracey’s website here – she did a wonderful job. Plus, you may recognize her from a recent wedding post…

This next one is of me and my little boyfriend. I had to sneak this in to prove to Paul that he really would make a great second shooter… Thanks, hon!


A certain young man may have tipped a kayak around the time of this next picture…;)And his Dad’s making sure he’s got it all under control. (He did.)


Okay, I know I’m this little boy’s mom, but, um, gross:

This little girl has so much personality– she was such fun to photograph! Plus, her name is Maeve, which is what we would have named Nora’s twin if it was a girl. LOVE it. –( But I am so glad her twin is a boy…) I don’t put surnames on this blog, but when I heard Maeve’s last name combined with her first, well, I’ll admit that I did feel a tiny twinge of Irish envy!:)


A couple shots of the beautiful Victorian home:

A quick shot of the whole Kloter crew– with recognition and thanks to the gentleman in the glasses, Mr. Keith Kloter, who started this whole thing in the first place.

“Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived.”

-Patrick Stewart

Sneak Peek

‘Just a really quick peek into what I’m working on, getting ready to post soon– some fun shots that ooze happiness, summer fun, and good times with friends and family. I was asked to shoot the Kloter Farms annual picnic at the CT shore this past Friday. What fun!